This video is a great example of using touch, humor and commanding presence all at once to shift her mood instead of the thing most men do which is attempt to convince her with words.
But how did he get to this point with her? How is it she trusts him with her emotional life and respects his authority to help her stabilize and calm her mood so she can get back into her right state of mind?
Now, his comment about the ice cream would have felt demeaning to MY sensibilities, but not hers. Every woman is different in this way but the same in her need to lean into men for her emotional anchoring.
So how did he have success in this moment?
#1 He knows himself.
#2 He know how to center and stabilize himself
#3 He has stayed open to learning about her
He knows what he wants his life to be like becasue he has examined it as you are doing here with this course.
He has invested in practices that help him stay calm, centered and present in his body thus the moment matte how escalated the emotions may run.
He knows what will make HER smile and laugh because prior this moment his was paying attention which is what presence is and what is required for great sex and a great life with women.
This can only happen when a man is truly curious about the woman prior to her having an emotional flare up.
When men only see women as a thing to get something from...approval, sex, domestic services, affection, attention and are not genuinely interested in HER, curious about women in general, he will fail to be present. Just how it works.
There are many reasons a man is not able to be present in his life and body (where our emotional life happens) and coaching is a great way to untangle all of that with professional support.