There is chasing the release of a limited orgasm and then there is the ideal... an expanded orgasmic flow. Focus on one climatic release causes a diminishing return for health, anti-aging, relationship potential and emotional well being.
Ejaculation is separate from orgasm. To have better sex...more connected to partner, health inducing instead of health reducing and to achieve multi and full body orgasm as a man, you must learn to separate the small, limited ejaculation style orgasm from the universal flow orgasm. It takes awareness and practice.